Learn How to Do Love Differently!
I want to set the record straight on who my “relationship stuff” is for (and who it’s NOT for.) See, I’ve been getting email replies and posts from my peeps and they all start out with “Nancy, I really love your work but…” …but I just had a bad break-up/divorce and I don’t think I […]
THIS is the New Relationship Blueprint!
“You complete me.” Tom Cruise was on my TV screen saying that line to Renee Zellweger in the movie Jerry Maguire, causing women the world over to swoon. But not me. “It’s more like you deplete me,” I mumbled to myself. If you’ve read my book Jump…and Your Life Will Appear, you already know everything you need to know about […]
The Popular Myth of Finding THE ONE!
We’ve been fueled by fairytales of being rescued from drudgery like Cinderella or awakened from a long sleep by the magic of a kiss like Sleeping Beauty. We women have envisioned ourselves as damsels to be rescued, while men pictured themselves as heroes riding up on white horses. Classic literature, modern music, and movies have […]
How to Get an A+ in Relationship School
The new relationship blueprint reframes relationship as a spiritual path. Another way of saying that is: relationship is school. In fact, relationship is the #1 school for personal growth and spiritual development in our modern world. Our relationships are teachers that help us become more whole, conscious human beings. Sure, you can try to avoid ever […]
‘Staying Home’ Within Yourself
Many of us lose ourselves the minute we intuit that someone we love is having a need or desire of their own. We might start out anchored, but someone else’s waves can easily throw us off course. My client Maria, for example, has struggled to stay anchored in her own feelings. She says she used […]
OWN YOUR GREATNESS!
Our beliefs that we hold about money—and our own worthiness—keep us in situations that aren’t truly satisfying. They trap us in the fear of the unknown, where we’re willing to short ourselves to avoid stepping outside of our comfort zone. The tragedy is that so many of us are willing to stay small to such […]
The Secret to Love
There’s a secret Trojan horse in all of the work I do: Regardless of the subject matter, it’s all about self-love. That’s what my previous three books were about, and that’s what my upcoming book, The New Relationship Blueprint is about. Every. Single. Page. In my humble opinion, this whole life is about the lesson in […]
no now without then
no now without then there is a trick no one tells about letting go you can’t fully release what isn’t firmly in your grasp everything we seek externally must first be resolved internally you must get right to the heart of it seduce the memories immerse yourself in inquiry truth will only come for you […]
What Are You Hiding?
Up until that day I found out my husband had read my journals, I had never told anyone about my affair. I mean nobody—not my dear sister, not my closest friends, no one. I’d compartmentalized my life to such a degree that it wasn’t even hard to keep it a secret. I was afraid of […]
Shift from Self-Sabotage to Success!
Feeling that we’re not enough, or not good enough translates into the fear that we’ll never have enough. Fear of success and fear of failure are two sides of one coin, and our self-sabotage and self-doubt are self-fulfilling prophecies in which we unknowingly make damn sure we never, ever have all that we need. It’s […]